Being nice.

Everyone wants to be nice.

but some of us tries too hard to be nice.

We think, how come some people.

Pulls of being-nice so easily?
Folks nation wide reveres him/her as the almighty nice one. everyone praises him/her for being nice.

but here you are , trying so hard to be nice.
being nice to whom you think are a bunch of ingrates. Taking your nice deeds for granted.

How fucking annoying is that?

Then...

Why are we TRYING to be nice?

Why do we find it hard to turn down requests from our friends?
Requests of NICE* deeds from you.

Do we genuinely want to help or do we help cause we find it hard to turn them down?

In otherwords,

Are you a nice person? Or are you asked to be a nice person?

(and you find it hard to turn down a chance for you to be who you want/ought to be)

Its annoying how we all preach that , if we're genuinely nice. We do it out of goodwill, we do not expect reciprocation.
And yet we curse and swear at those ingrates.

Why? because . we're nice cause we're asked to be.

Appreciation is vital. To us , is the basic hygiene of being nice.

but being nice, we're doing it for someother's benefits isnt it?

To all of us we tries to be nice, and be nice only when we're asked to be.
Its good that we try.
But dont allow one or two ingrates* to stop you from being nice to others who appreciate.
Because they are deserving.

And why do we TRY-ERs

expect so much?
Cause we TRY-ers , blow up every nice thing we do.
We think of it as a self-sacrificing deed, when being nice is to overlook oneself and work for the benefit of others.

we fail to be genuinely nice and that is to overlook oneself.


So lets all try to be nice, cause you want to.

22nd July

An unlikely NO.
Damn depressing.

Come on . let it be a YES.that is what i wish to hear, on JULY 22nd .

With regards to the thing i really really want.

come on man. help me pray for me.

Frog

Pictures of my frog.

You guys know that. my frog will be rid of the green.
going back to GREY. BORING GREY

Why?
It wll be given to my mom.
(my next ride will only come in september)

I miss my greeen coloured car

Credit princess Gabriella for the superb pictures

Inactivity.

Back and blogging.
Schools been shiet. very fucking boring. project works. gah.

Been awhile back, 2 months to be close to exact.
Thanks everyone for the 3x birthday surprise man!

12 midnight, candles by my carpark. FUCKING AWESOME MAN!
6-7pm the next day, people @ the JU-JU restaurant. THANKS MAN!
Later at night 10pm-12am - MORE PEOPLE at some random carpark behind.
DAMN NICE DAMN FAIRY-TALE. They lit the whole carpark with candles (a route with candles into the stairwell where i fed my pores cheesecake. haha . THANKS MAN!

FOLKS behind the surprise (THANKS MANY MANY)

hao

mun

bock

Sherwin

clement

terry

limin

weijin

Dudes who wished me happy birthday . SMS or MSN

suern

junjie

sujun

julius

alvin

waileong

tzetian

timwee

alicia

joe liu

meisheng

heng see meng(drift shifu)

alvin tham

justice

Jeremy Bmx

Theron

Gabriel Princess

Kwok siang

devon

how chun

Havi!

People who came for the surprises/event

hao

mun

bock

Sherwin

clement

terry

limin

weijin

Sujun

tzetian

Nigel

tuan jiaw

James

weiliang

Yiang hai

joe liu

waileong

ian

mitcher

darren

chiumun

hoihin

People who wished me on facebook

Raied

Joel Zee

Douglas

Walton

Gabriel - Drifter

Alvin tan - Drifter

Szuhui

Malcom Bs

Michelle BS

Stella BS!

NEATO

Thanks alot man. most eventful birthday ever

Self-worth

Importance , to the most important person in the world i'm unimportant as he is important to me for i'm unimportantImportance , to the most important person in the world i'm unimportant as he is important to me for i'm unimportant

So how do you intepret? - by 2.

she is important because i'm unimportant to her(her standpoint)

I'm unimportant in my own opinion therefore she is important to me.

Society moulds people not to sek self-fuilfilment but to seek acceptance.

The measure of importance of the people around you. General public's opinions are imporant to yuo for yuo are unimportant

Society moulds people not to seek self-fulfilment bu to seek acceptance.

The measure of importance of the people around you. General public opinions are important to you for you are unimportant.

Why do people around me conforms their priorities to the unimportant people aruond them . Unimportant to their future/well-being.

How can my cow , put herself before others, to understand the true importance of her important self and important health.

Motivation- Find a role model
Mental restructure - Priorities based on her interest and not expectation of others.

Most importantly, she has to understand her own importance in the society.

Cow ! Change for the better.

I can offer no more then mental reassurance. but that is if i'm of a significant importance.