Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Being nice.

Everyone wants to be nice.
but some of us tries too hard to be nice.

We think, how come some people.
Pulls of being-nice so easily?
Folks nation wide reveres him/her as the almighty nice one. everyone praises him/her for being nice.

but here you are , trying so hard to be nice.
being nice to whom you think are a bunch of ingrates. Taking your nice deeds for granted.

How fucking annoying is that?

Then...

Why are we TRYING to be nice?

Why do we find it hard to turn down requests from our friends?
Requests of NICE* deeds from you.

Do we genuinely want to help or do we help cause we find it hard to turn them down?

In otherwords,

Are you a nice person? Or are you asked to be a nice person?
(and you find it hard to turn down a chance for you to be who you want/ought to be)


Its annoying how we all preach that , if we're genuinely nice. We do it out of goodwill, we do not expect reciprocation.
And yet we curse and swear at those ingrates.

Why? because . we're nice cause we're asked to be.

Appreciation is vital. To us , is the basic hygiene of being nice.
but being nice, we're doing it for someother's benefits isnt it?


To all of us we tries to be nice, and be nice only when we're asked to be.
Its good that we try.
But dont allow one or two ingrates* to stop you from being nice to others who appreciate.
Because they are deserving.

And why do we TRY-ERs
expect so much?
Cause we TRY-ers , blow up every nice thing we do.
We think of it as a self-sacrificing deed, when being nice is to overlook oneself and work for the benefit of others.
we fail to be genuinely nice and that is to overlook oneself.


So lets all try to be nice, cause you want to.

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